Female Solo Traveler

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The number one question I am constantly getting asked is "Is it safe as a female to travel abroad solo?" and my answer is always "Yes!". I feel as if it's almost a right of passage. You have no idea what you’re capable of until you travel by yourself. Whenall there isto rely on is you. Every disaster that might happen, every time a decision is up to you, you get to know yourself better than you ever have before. 

The first time I ever traveled alone was to Washington D.C. I was 16 years old and I got nominated to be a part of an organization to experience D.C. through different areas of education. My area was Journalism because I thought I was going to either become a lobbyist or a writer of some sort. This was one of the absolute best experiences of my life. I was throwninto situations where I had to be responsible for everything, after relying on my parents all my life when it came to traveling, I now had to do all these thingson my own. I was able to grow so much on that trip and it wassuch a great experience that when they invited me back 2 years later to the inauguration of our 43rd President George W. Bush. Ijustcouldn’t refuse. Not onlywas it a once in a lifetime opportunity, but come on how manypeople have been to a Presidential Inauguration before? I reallyenjoyed traveling on my own and was excited for what this experience would bring me. 

This was all to prepare for manyyears later, my sister and I both had a “gap semester” and we were both in a transitional point in our lives. We had also justcome back from an amazingEuro-trip with our family. I was working at our travel agency part-time and I found an amazingMediterranean Cruise. A week in Europe for $600, I booked it without hesitation and somehow convinced my sister to come with me. We had to make the trip as cheap as possible, so we had to fly with miles to London, a week before the cruise was about to leave and had to find our way to Rome. We were leaving a week after our cruise and had to find our way to Vienna. Best trip of my life. This was an actual milestone trip for me because yes I was with mysister, buttwe were 2 young girls in Europe that had to prove everyone back home that we were right, Europe was safe, and we could handle it. 

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Not to say we didn’t have our disasters, which I’ll highlight, in my different destinations, but it wasthe catapult to what my life is now. On that trip my sister mentioned how amazingit would be to live a summer abroad. Two years later there we were again. I was dropping her off in Brno, Czech Republic on my way to San Remo, Italy ready to spend our summer solo in Europe. 

I spent a veryemotional, life changing, reflective month in San Remo. Because of this, San Remoand Italy will always have a special place in my heart. It wasa time of extreme growth for me. I got to know myself without everyone’s expectations of what I should be. Don’t get me wrong, family and friends will always want the absolute best for you, but they all have a certain expectation of what you should be. Sitting on my balcony looking out to the beach and hearing the Italian language being spokenall around me, being an absolute foreigner in a place where I didn’t know a soul I found myself. 

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I got to spend time by myself, I took myself on adventures that I never knew I wanted or even needed for myself to feel complete. I took a cooking class by an Italian grandmother; I hiked up a mountain for 3 hours straight (if you know me personally you know this is a hugedeal), I then had to hike down the mountain, which I wasn’t counting on lol. Iattended an Italian Catholic mass, and I healed heartbreak. A lot of thingswomen don’t like to admit is that we get our heartbroken and that doesn’t make us weak, or give the men power. This makes us strong because we need to be strong enough to be vulnerable enough to accept love. That night in that church, I realized that it wasokay to be heartbroken and it wasup to me to heal my own broken heart. 

I also learned what was important in my life, as cliché as that sounds. I have always said that I wasn’t meant to live the traditional life that everyone else lives; I was meantfor something different. Iremember clearlythe day that it all clicked on my balcony in San Remothat this is what I was supposed to be doing with my life. Iwas supposed to be travellingforever. Ididn’t want to go back to law school and be a big shot attorney, and work countless hours with the corner office. That wasn’t what my life was supposed to be. And that’s totally okay. 

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I’ll talk a lot more of all ofmy adventures in San Remolater on, but if you ever think that you would like to travel solo or you’re wondering if it’s safe, it is! I’ve survived it twice and I’ve loved it. I’ll also keep doing it until someone fills the position of a permanent travel buddy and I can stand them enough to keep travellingwith them permanently lol. If you ever want any tips or to pick my brain on it all feel free to reach out to me I’d love to hear from you and see how I can help you out. 

Roaming Rome in 24 Hours

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Rome, one of the most iconic cities in the world.  A city at the tope of everyone’s bucket list.  Rome, the very first city I discovered in Europe has quickly is usually everyone’s first stop in Europe.  Depending on the type of traveler you, Rome could be visited by plane, cruise or train.  I’ve visited Rome every which way and it’s a different feeling each time.  

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            When Rome is discovered by land there’s usually more time to immerse yourself in the culture, in the sights, and let’s be real the food. Pasta in Italy just tastes better.  When you visit Rome by cruise ship there are few hours to visit the city.  The point of a cruise is to give you a little taste into a lot of destinations for you to decide if it’s a place you’d like to return. A cruise is also a great way to see a lot of places in in a short period of time and on a budget. 

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            There is no way you can see all of Rome thoroughly in 1 day I’ll tell you the fastest way to get all of the sights done quickly in 1 day. The port of Rome is called Civitavecchia, which is roughly an hour and a half from the city of Rome.  The most economical and fastest way to get there is by train.  The train from Civitavecchia drops you off right in front of the Collosseum.  There’s not enough time to walk into the Collosseum but you can admire it from the outside and take your picture and go take a walk through the Roman Forum.  

            From the Collosseum we took a walk to Pantheon. Fun fact about me this was my 4 visit to Rome and I had never visited the Pantheon before.  At the Pantheon we decided to grab a bit to eat from a hidden restaurant and eat right on the steps while half of the group went inside. 

            Next on the list was the Trevi Fountain, being the middle of November, which is considered off-season.  It made all of this fairly easy.  There weren’t many tourists doing the same things we were.  The streets weren’t as crowded, which made it all a lot easier to get around and the sites were more enjoyable than before.  The Fountain of Trevi was basically empty compared to my first visit there.  We were able to visit the fountain toss a coin and make our wish.  

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We also decided to make a quick stop at the Spanish Steps.  When I visited the first time, the Spanish Steps were so crowded you couldn’t even go up the steps.  There were people sitting literally all over the steps.  This time they were basically empty.  Perks of travelling during the off-season.  After this it was a rush to find a taxi to take us to the train station to get back to the port.  If you aren’t as rushed as we are I suggest the bus.  Public transportation is very reliable in Europe; we were actually waiting for the bus when we realized if we didn’t make it across the city in the next 30 minutes we were going to miss our cruise.  After that it was a seamless run through the train station to catch the last train back to Civitavecchia.